Retire or Send the Kids to College

First off, don’t criticize yourself about your money management. It is very difficult to accomplish either one of these goals. The purchasing power, the company pension plans, the increase of education and starting families earlier play a huge part in such difficulties.

And let’s face it -your retirement should have an emphasis on your own life. Let your children go to a high-priced four-year private school if you wish, and give them the gift of learning to use their money wisely by paying for it themselves. Look at it from this point of view, if you spend your money on college, then a few years into retirement your savings will be gone. Your social security may not be enough to make ends meet.

Just ask my 90-year-old great aunt how far her $638 Social Security check stretches each month!

The best thing to do for your family is to stay financially strong, and put your retirement first. It may sound selfish, but it is truly the best strategy for your family overall.

If you want to try to save for both, here’s some advice. Start while the children are young, and set them up a bank account. Many financial planners recommend that children set aside 25% of their earnings into this bank account. This could be money earned from chores, good grades or even holiday gifts. When the child reaches high school age, then they can start a part-time job and supply that percentage through their earnings. This will not only help save money for college, but it will help teach your children important economic lessons.

So again, pay attention to your future first and your children will appreciate it in the long run. Don’t let something like not paying for college get you down. Your children will need you throughout their life far more than your money. The protection of your finances will ensure an independent retirement and leave no burden on future generations.